Your Criticism of us is Going to be Ignored... You can Miss us With This Type of Foolishness...

November 2, 2025

It has become clear to us that some in the Body of Christ have attributed wrong-doing on Kathryn and my parts. We have been accused of being to harsh on the "old woman". We have been accused of not being loving and compassionate towards. The reality is Evangelist/Pastor Barbara Lynch has fallen into sin on many different levels. This sin has nothing to do with her health. Her health may be a consequence of her sin but she is not acting out because she has dementia. Her unbridled lust for Aaron Betz, her refusal to acknowledge that the voice she has been listening would is not right, her refusal to acknowledge that the real Spirit of God would never tell her to abandon the word of God is evidence enough that there is a serious problem.

Short story long, I really don't care how you feel about me or Kathryn. We are doing what we need to do. We are doing what we feel the Lord is calling us to do to spread the truth about this situation. You can judge us if you want to. It's not going to stop us from telling the truth. It's not going to stop us from highlighting what has went on and what has contributed to the fall of not only the Lighthouse Inc., Church but also every other Church that has the same characteristics. You can miss us with your critiques and criticisms of how we said it, and we should have said it like this. Nah, skip that. You can miss us with that. Just go on down the road with that foolishness. We don't need it and we won't be taking your advice.

The Bi-laws of the Lighthouse Inc., Church give the Executive Board the ability to set her down. The current board members are Alan Farkas, Theresa McGinnis, and Aaron Betz. Aaron Betz is on sabbatical and not currently an active member of the Lighthouse Inc., Church but he has promised to return to her when he comes back from being a "prodigal" son. Alan Farkas and Theresa McGinnis will not stand up to her. The Lighthouse Inc., Church remains in shambles and there is no real accountability for Evangelist/Pastor Barbara Lynch. This continues to be why she can do as she pleases. In hindsight, I wish that I would have recognized what was going on. I didn't recognize it because I wanted to believe that she was doing the right thing. It never occurred to me that she wasn't. I felt sorry for Evangelist/Pastor Barbara for so many different reasons. When she said that she was no longer going to teach the Bible at the Lighthouse Inc., Church, this was a line that could not be crossed.

When Your Leader Fails You...

No Bible Teaching in the Lighthouse Inc., Church

There were several things that Evangelist/Pastor Barbara held onto that were illegitimate. 1. She always preached that Revival was coming to the Lighthouse Inc., Church. 2. She always preached that God was going to use her to bring the "End Time" Harvest into Delaware. 3. She always preached that God was going to bring a greater glory into the Lighthouse Inc., Church for signs, wonders, and miracles. These things have never happened. These things will not happen until she goes back and fully repents for abandoning the "Word of God". Joshua Simone of the "Torn Curtain" highlights what another believer is saying about the corruption in the Church. This video highlights some of the same errors that Evangelist/Pastor Barbara walks in... false prophecy, false teaching, false revival and much more.

When I process the things that Shange Idleman says about leaving the Charismatic Community. I agree and completely understand. Nothing good has come out of this community. Everything so far has been nothing but lies and corruption. When it comes to me and my wife for leaving the Lighthouse Inc., Church community there are many similarities of corruption that needs to be looked at thoroughly.

(From Christopher) Yes, this is an emotional topic. Yes, I am offended, hurt, angry, embittered, and any other qualifying adjective that you need to ascribe to your viewpoint of me. Truth will wait... Truth is not going anywhere. Truth will stand right next to you and not say a word until you humble yourself to the Holy Spirit and listen to that "still, small" voice of the Spirit.

John 14: 15 - 17 (Amp)

15 “If you [really] love Me, you will keep and obey My commandments. 16 And I will ask the Father, and He will give you another Helper (Comforter, Advocate, Intercessor—Counselor, Strengthener, Standby), to be with you forever— 17 the Spirit of Truth, whom the world cannot receive [and take to its heart] because it does not see Him or know Him, but you know Him because He (the Holy Spirit) remains with you continually and will be in you.

If you are not listening to the Holy Spirit, you will be easily deceived and easily led astray. There are people who believe that Evangelist/Pastor Barbara is experiencing some form of dementia. They believe that this dementia is contributing to her spiritual demise. This is not the case.

(From Kathryn)

My mother and father both have dementia. They both have different responses to dementia. It breaks my heart to see them in such a state. On that note, some have said Evangelist/Pastor Barbara could have dementia. I understand why, it’s unbelievable to even think she is fully aware or fully in control of this kind of behavior. When indeed, everything she’s done behind the scenes and in the public has been carefully orchestrated, down to the point of her saying she does not have to vindicate herself. This is not dementia behavior, this is her choosing to follow a voice that’s led her down the path of destruction. That’s led her to cover up the truth and use the prophetic to rebuke those who are speaking out about her sinful nature.

The part that many don’t know is, she’s hurt several of those she has mentored behind this situation, and behind listening to the wrong voice. How come those people don’t matter? How come they are told to be silent? The Bible tells us as believers to expose the darkness. How come we get rebuked behind following the Word of God?

Ephesians 5: 11 - 13 (Amp)

11 Do not participate in the worthless and unproductive deeds of darkness, but instead expose them [by exemplifying personal integrity, moral courage, and godly character]; 12 for it is disgraceful even to mention the things that such people practice in secret. 13 But all things become visible when they are exposed by the light [of God’s precepts], for it is light that makes everything visible.

Ephesians 5: 11 - 13

“Take no part in the unfruitful works of darkness, but instead expose them. For it is shameful even to speak of the things that they do in secret. But when anything is exposed by the light, it becomes visible, for anything that becomes visible is light.”

God is exposing darkness in the Body of Christ like never before and how is He doing it? By using those with courage to stand up against the darkness, exposing the truth to say enough is enough. We can’t help that God is using us to do this to our (former) leader that we held dear to our heart. It hurts to do this but it had to be done for one, for her to see the error of her ways and repent. For two, to protect the sheep, for three, to bring honor to God and to clear up confusion to many whom seen her wrong but didn’t know how to process it or speak on it.

Many have privately messaged me to say thank you for bringing this out, I was hurt because of how she did "x, y, & z" and this cleared up what was in my spirit. People need healing. They need to know they are not crazy for feeling how they felt about things the Spirit of God showed them. I’m sorry if all of this is hurting you or the Body of Christ. We are not out of line from what the scriptures would say.

Paul said, we are to give those over to satan for the purpose of saving their soul, the Church doesn’t want to be real about this. This is a hard conversation that many would say, "Pray only, don’t expose them, don’t bring it to the light." That’s not biblical. Sorry.

(From Christopher)

Someone felt led in their Spirit man to post this on our facebook post: "Sounds like she needs prayer instead of rebuke! If these statements are true seniors do get dementia?"

If you can look at and view all of the evidence that we have shared and presented over the last several months and still ignore the depths of what is going on, I don't know what else can be done to help you. I believe that this person is speaking for a significant segment of the Body of Christ. They refuse to see the truth because the Spirit of Truth is not in them. These same people who feel this way suggested prayer instead of rebuke.

Ecclesiastes 3: 1 - 8 (Amp) There is a season (a time appointed) for everything and a time for every delight and event or purpose under heaven— 2 A time to be born and a time to die;

A time to plant and a time to uproot what is planted. 3 A time to kill and a time to heal; A time to tear down and a time to build up. 4 A time to weep and a time to laugh; A time to mourn and a time to dance.

5 A time to throw away stones and a time to gather stones; A time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing. 6 A time to search and a time to give up as lost; A time to keep and a time to throw away. 7 A time to tear apart and a time to sew together; A time to keep silent and a time to speak. 8 A time to love and a time to hate; A time for war and a time for peace.

I pray that the lustful/perverted spirit that has overcome Evangelist/Pastor Barbara Lynch would leave her mind, body, and soul. I pray that her lustful/narcistic behavior would be cast out of her so that you and the rest of the Body of Christ can feel better about this situation. I pray for restoration because the most important thing is not that she stops listening to the voice that has led her astray, the most important thing is that you feel better. There is a big problem here and it starts with idolatry of people and idolatry of the prophetic. No prophetic leader can ever be held accountable for leading people astray. The same forgiveness you are using on her, use it on me for posting this post. I don't have dementia and neither does she. I willfully responded to your post the same way she willfully went down this path.

If you can look at all of the evidence that we have provided and find fault with us. Something is wrong with you. You need to get saved and just miss us with all of that.

Selah!